The Power of Silence

Proverbs 17:28 (NLT) Even fools are thought wise when they keep silent; with their mouths shut, they seem intelligent.

The phrase in the picture can seem very cliche'.  However, it speaks volumes of truth.  I will be the first to admit that sometimes I would rather speak than listen, especially if I feel like I'm right.  Pride and justification seems to give us the reason to act out in the ways we do.  

In a conversation I recently had with someone, I had an epiphany. Not one that I never knew, but one that sometimes has to package itself differently in order for us to "get it!" Now I knew this person was ready to argue when the call first took place.  And to some degree I was ready too.  However (and I admit), at the urging of my husband, I silenced myself (oh the struggle!).  The person on the line proceeded to state their side and do so in a heated manner.  Their argument was met with silence and calm "okays" here and there.  Unexpectedly to me, the conversation ended quickly with what I felt to be great disappointment on the other party's end.  But it was at that moment that the light went off...the "aha" moment had presented itself.  

Sometimes when we think or feel we are so right in our actions to speak rather than listen, we place ourselves on the same level as what the bible calls "fools."  There's a host of wisdom and volumes of lessons that's learned when we intentionally silence ourselves.  Placing ourselves in the position to be humble allows our stance to carry the conversation.  Though to some it is, I'm learning that it's truly not that serious to engage in unnecessary talk, especially if it does no edification anywhere.  

The bible speaks greatly on the importance of bridling our tongues, watching what we say, and being slow to speak (James 1:19).  Our glory doesn't come from attempting to make a point or even making others look bad, but rather knowing when to stand up and when to stand down.  Sure there will be times when we have to speak up.  But the beautiful thing about all of this, is when we ask God to guide and carry our conversations, He will do just that!  

A scripture we recite in church and one I regularly say to myself is Psalm 19:14 says "Let the words of my mouth and the meditation of my heart, be acceptable in Your sight...oh Lord, my Strength and my Redeemer."  

Sparing our character is far more important than getting a few seconds of glory from vain conversation.